Then and now - Survival question arises in between - how?
Rohan’s empathetic nature has saved and built many relationships. His cousin’s friend – Kavish was going through a major downfall in life after his father’s demise. He met Rohan and now is living his life to the fullest, progressing each day.
Kavish is a jolly person and a perfect family man, running his venture of antique articles is quite renowned and doing amazing in life. A couple of years ago, Kavish’s father met a sudden death due to Cardiac arrest. Kavish had always been “Papa’s son,” it became challenging for him to accept the reality of his father’s lost existence. He started losing his focus from business and family and eventually became a different person altogether. This changed Kavish was obnoxious and depressed. He met Rohan at one of the social gatherings. Rohan realized the drastic change in his behavior and came forward to help him.
Initially, he was adamant to open up and accept. Rohan gave him his own time and made him comfortable with him. Gradually he started discussing his life issues with him like a best buddy! Rohan would listen to him and gave him a shoulder of support. With each passing day, he was improving and then Rohan decided to counsel him properly. He volunteered to counsel him and he started following what he says. Rohan made him understand how his dad would feel watching him like this and how he would want his son to live happily and doing good in life. Understanding, clarity, reality, and acceptance penetrated Kavish’s heart. He started focusing on his life and started living his life how his dad would have wanted. Things got better and Kavish rediscovered himself.
Kavish is now the same fun-loving, family person, a hero for his children, and a man of dreams for his wife! Kavish is immensely grateful to Rohan for not just changing his life but for also being there with him when nobody else was there! Not a friend, still a lot, lot more than a friend now. Rohan always says – “It’s never about what you do for yourself, it’s always about what you do for others!”
How a Couple Saved Their Love Marriage by Giving Another Chance?
A marriage takes two to tango. You cannot save it if only one person is trying. This story is about a couple who expressed love in the most little moments imaginable. They were their happy places for each other. She loved him for being an amazing father in the world to their daughter, and things turned upside down when she desired to have a second baby to complete the family.
In an ideal marriage, one would want to have similar opinions as to their partners. However, the reality is somewhat different than what you think for any relationship. Her charm always enchanted him, and he is thereby her side to take care of the family. It was a perfect family for anyone who sees them at the first meeting. There were disagreements in the difference of opinions, and they were compromising in little obligations in their lives like every perfect couple would do. But this time, the tension rises as she decides to have a second baby. And for the first time, he was not a part of this decision made by her. She had made up her mind and eventually, she conceived. There was a drastic change in his behaviour towards her. Things became complicated, and they were not the “ideal couple” any more.
Shortly afterwards, everything fell apart for her. The husband was not a part of any conversation initiated by the wife, and there was no intimacy left between them. He lost interest in taking care of her when she needed him the most. Soon social gatherings were just mere formality for both of them. It was one weekend when his dear friend Rohan Jardosh decided to give them a surprise visit after a long time. The bell rang, and before she realised, he carelessly got up and opened the door. Rohan was expecting a complete surprising reaction from him. Instead, it was a casual greeting and a warm welcome by her.
Rohan sensed something was not right between them the moment he entered their home. He could feel the problem between them. She prepared a special dinner for them, and they began to start eating on the dining table. Rohan could see the tension through his gut feelings. Amidst the conversation, she broke the news of her pregnancy with great excitement. She looked happy and sad both. There was no sign of happiness from his side. Now it was clear for Rohan what was brewing and caused the stress in this happy atmosphere.
Rohan took no time and soon after the dinner, he took the husband and the wife one after the other in a room to explain the value of marriage in their lives. It was him first. It was he who was not happy with this decision of having a second baby. Rohan explained that this is common to have things go unplanned when you don’t expect it to happen anytime soon. He even gave reasons for being unhappy with the marriage like lack of family time, finances, couple time, and fear of not facing those challenges again.
To overcome these reasons, Rohan advised a list of suggestions for him to think over it. It started like this – for any discussions, it is foremost to keep an open mind and need to work on solving the issues together. It will help you to find the root cause of your both feelings.
